1. The room to chase
The enjoyment of pursuing something isn’t limited to men; it’s a universal experience. We all relish the challenge of striving for the best in life. However, in the realm of dating, women sometimes unintentionally hinder men from experiencing this pursuit. If you consistently take the lead in arranging dates and initiating communication, you may be depriving him of the opportunity to feel the thrill of chasing you.
Instead of imposing your desires, allow things to unfold naturally. If he’s genuinely interested, he will make his intentions known.
This isn’t about engaging in manipulative tactics. It’s about ensuring that he actively chooses to pursue you, rather than feeling pressured into it.
Shift your perspective to one of openness, allowing the dynamic between you two to develop organically while continuing to focus on your own fulfillment. Acknowledge his efforts to move the relationship forward and reciprocate, but refrain from exerting undue pressure. If his interest is genuine, it will manifest naturally.