Persons to Avoid Following A Breakup

Your mutual friends

While you won’t be able to avoid every buddy you had in common, you should avoid couples and friends who knew him before you. Of course, if the friend supports you in the split, that’s another story. Going together with the pals you shared can bring up painful memories, and if they share information with your ex, things can become much more complicated.

Another thing you should be honest about is why you’re reaching out to a buddy who is also close to your ex. It’s a no-no to use them to gather information, spy on someone, or speak negatively about them in order to tarnish their reputation. It’s not only awful breakup etiquette, but it’ll make you suffer even more. It’s also not acceptable to ask a mutual friend to choose sides.