9 Secrets That Happen When A 20 or 30-Something Dates An Older Person

9. Power Dynamics

Age differences can create power imbalances, with the older partner potentially taking a dominant role. A 2017 study found 55% of age-gap couples reported initial power imbalances, but 80% achieved balance through communication and respect. To maintain equality, discuss decisions openly, ensure both voices are heard, and support each other’s independence. Regularly check in on each other’s feelings to keep the relationship balanced and healthy.